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Don’t Be Desperate |
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| We have known people who think it’s better to be with “anyone” than be alone. Are you one of those people? Or perhaps you’re the kind of person who cannot break up with someone unless you have another person lined up to take his/her place. Are you one of those people? If you answered yes, you might be too desperate.
Desperation is a negative emotion. Any fear-based emotion such as jealousy, possessiveness, anxiety, or anger can affect your whole life. It has been proven that different emotions can be photographed and their rate of vibration can be measured. The negative emotions like desperation are very slow-vibrating. But emotions such as joy, love, or appreciation vibrate very quickly. Scientists have found that the slow emotions attract more negative conditions in one’s life.
If you are the kind of person who “needs a man” or “needs a woman,” get out of the mindset. You might be actually repelling the very thing you want most in your life. If nothing else, anyone can spot a desperate person a mile away. And most don’t want to be around them. Yes, it is nice to have someone want you. But to have someone keep you around only because they need someone – anyone – in their lives … well that is not how most people want to exist in relationships.
Admitting you are desperate can be difficult at best. No one wants to admit they are desperate. But take some time to be honest with yourself. Once you discover your level of desperation, you can start to change it.
Being alone can be a wonderful experience. It can lead to intense learning. It forces you to look at you and only you. And by spending some time with yourself, you will hopefully not only get to know yourself better, you will also get to like yourself better. And this will definitely help you attract your perfect mate.
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