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Invoke the Law of Forgiveness |
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| Forgiveness is key to creating the relationship you desire. You must give up pain, anger, resentment, and fear in order to make it happen. Negative energy associated with non-forgiveness will plug up the channel for positive energy, which brings you what you want.
Most people think if they forgive someone, they are “accepting” what the person did, or saying it was acceptable. This is not true. In order to truly forgive, try viewing forgiveness as a selfish act. It’s something you do for yourself to avoid the burden of carrying heavy anger and resentment. When you rid yourself of negative emotions toward your partner, you will feel free to manifest a more positive relationship.
You also must forgive yourself. We’ve all done something we regret, whether in relationships or otherwise. But it’s in the past, so move on. There is no value in holding onto guilt.
The mere act of forgiveness is a cleansing of negative energy between two people. However, it is not enough to say “I forgive John.” You must feel it in your body and soul. If you know forgiveness is “selfish,” why not do it? What is holding you back? When you are unwilling to forgive your partner, you are tied to your partner in a neagative way. When you forgive, the other person is affected positively as well, even if they don’t know you forgave them.
So how do you begin the process of forgiveness? Realize everyone is fallible?we all make mistakes and are a product of our experiences. What your partner did “to you” relates to their weakness, not your value. In other words, be compassionate. This will re-frame forgiveness so you can truly release the negative energy needed to improve your relationship. |
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