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Stop Being a “Victim” |
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| There is no such thing as a victim. Instead, there are people who choose to play the victim role. This concept is applicable to relationships because people think they are the victim of the other person’s actions. Let’s take a look as some qualities of a vitcim so you can see if you fit nto this category:
• They believe they don’t have any power.
• They always blame others for anything that happens to them.
• They are addicted to pain and fear.
• They have very little joy in their lives/relationship.
• They take very little responsibility for their feelings.
• They feel at the mercy of others.
• They judge others.
• They thrive on drama.
• We create our own reality. And if you are playing a victim role, you will have excessive negative emotions, which will generate negative experiences. You can choose to stop being a victim. When you make that choice, your life and relationship will become better. You will feel more positive and light. You will reclaim your power. Become a master of your relationship and life. When you do this, you will experience the following characteristics enhanced within:
• Non-judgment
• Joy
• Peacefulness
• Power
• No blame
• No regrets
Masters act. They don’t react. Acting means being centered and taking control of your circumstances.You no longer allow others to dictate how you feel or what your life is like. Take time to seriously consider your victim status. Then decide you will no longer play that game. Take back your power and watch your relationship improve.
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